

Bottom line: do you like your job, your standing at your job, and your friendship with John more or less than the potential of getting with her?
That’s the only real question here, since those things are what you’re risking if it goes bad.
If the juice still sounds worth the squeeze, then you have your answer, but go into it with both eyes open. There will be fallout from somewhere. Don’t bemoan your situation in 6 months when you have to deal with it.






“Tonight, we rung up the government and told them that if Anthropic is too squeamish to build killbots, we have no such qualms.”
Much better quote.