• GaMEChld@lemmy.world
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    2 days ago

    Asking as a brown person, can you tell me what advantages white people are receiving that I’m not?

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      I can tell cops to fuck themselves with zero fear of reprisal because I look and sound wealthy enough to sue.

      edit: Statistically speaking as a white guy im ~50% less likely to be shot by police.

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      I scanned your comments and you’re not totally off your rocker, so I’ll not be as big of an ass as I usual am.

      Your experience is an anecdote. The plural of anecdote is not “data”.

      The data shows that minorities are unfairly targeted by police. Arrested more, released more as innocent. Prosecuted more for the same rate of incidence.

      The data shows that having an “ethnic” name gets fewer responses to an identical resume.

      The data shows that for literal decades, some would say still, minorities couldn’t get home loans in good areas with good schools.

      What benefit do white people have? I have never, literally not once, thought or cared about my race. My privilege is getting to live without noticing my race in any meaningful context. That’s why white people have to be “woken”. We’re comfortably asleep in our bubble, from birth.

      If you don’t see it, great! But that might say less about reality, and more about your ability to perceive it.

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        What benefit do white people have? I have never, literally not once, thought or cared about my race. My privilege is getting to live without noticing my race in any meaningful context. That’s why white people have to be “woken”. We’re comfortably asleep in our bubble, from birth.

        Yeah, I got to do all that too. None of it required some special place for minorities and women to go to. All it required was people not talking about race every 5 seconds. What even is this hypothetical safe space for women and minorities that white people would theoretically be upset about anyway?

        And yes, I find it far easier and more effective to change my perception of reality than try to make reality conform to my emotional state.

        I think people who want to be offended will find something to take offense over and people who want to play victim will find something to claim persecution over. And I think when everyone shouts about how racist and unfair everything is all the time, it detracts from the most heinous actionable items.

        I always hate talking in vague generalities. I like specific events, and specific courses of action.

        It’s all a sliding scale of course. It’s the age old push and pull off nature vs nurture; being a product of the environment that created you and free will.

        I think it’s telling that white people on the left are more concerned with systemic racism than minorities in general are.

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          Do you think it’s ok to have a women’s only space for women who have been raped by a man and are scared and scarred?

          Also I disagree that minorities are less concerned about systemic racism, as everything I’ve learned about it has come from minorities. Maybe white people are louder about it, but duh, there’s more of them.

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      I don’t know your situation, but I certainly can tell you that at least in the Western Hemisphere, in the aggregate descendants of indigenous people and slaves are overcoming systemic injustice that robbed their ancestors of economic advantages, dignity, and liberty, and often introduced intergenerational trauma as well. And I don’t mean, like, in the past, redlining for example was legal within our parents lifetime and related forms of discrimination are still practiced today.

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      There are people out there that would not hire you based on the only thing I know about you. I’ve met enough of them that I have to assume there are more.

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      I can talk back to the police in a non-violent setting without getting shot.

      As a white male, there is zero chance of deing discriminated against when applying for 95% of jobs.

      I can walk into most buildings without being questioned. Nobody has ever told me that I don’t belong somewhere because of who I am.

      While whites that live in poverty can face some discrimination compared to middle class whites, $100 in clothing is enough to fit in most public spaces without drawing any attention. Minorities can’t do that.

      Those are the most obvious things, but they also mean that my economic and social standing basically went up my entire life by just being polite and working. That builds on itself, and while not all white men are successful. Being white isn’t one of their hurdles.

      All of those things are advantages compared to people who are not white males.

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        Well so far I haven’t been shot by any cops that I’ve interacted with, have not been discriminated against in employment, nor been questioned as to my presence in any building. But if you want to feel guilty, go ahead, it’s a free country. My dad came to this country with $6 in his pocket and did quite well.

        Almost sounds insulting though, kinda smacks of telling minorities who succeed "oh, you did so good despite your obvious disadvantages. " Like that scene from Star Trek (2009) with the Vulcans giving Spock shit for having a human mother.

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          Well so far I haven’t been shot by any cops that I’ve interacted with

          maybe you’re just not brown enough ! fat chance

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          So because you have not experienced those things, no one else of color has? No.

          As a white male I know I have privilege and use it to help those that don’t. When I see someone of color being shit on by people in power, like cops, or other people who think they’re above them, I step up in and say something at minimum.

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              I know I’m judged as better by others, but I don’t believe that shit for a second. I know I’m not better than anyone else just for being white.

              You’re free to feel as you please maybe once you’re shot at you’ll understand what others go through.