BerenstainsMonster@kbin.earth to 196@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 24 days agoperfectionism: the rule by which you judge yourselfmedia.kbin.earthexternal-linkmessage-square20fedilinkarrow-up1357arrow-down12
arrow-up1355arrow-down1external-linkperfectionism: the rule by which you judge yourselfmedia.kbin.earthBerenstainsMonster@kbin.earth to 196@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 24 days agomessage-square20fedilink
minus-squareSombyr@lemmy.ziplinkfedilinkarrow-up53·24 days agoCounterpoint: I’ll simply give up if I can’t do it perfect right away. That’ll surely fill the gaping hole in my soul.
minus-squareAsafum@feddit.nllinkfedilinkarrow-up19·23 days ago“you have to be ok with being really bad before you can become really good.” “…or I can just never try!” I’m starting to think 40 years of this mindset did some permanent damage to me and my future lol
minus-squareI_am_10_squirrels@beehaw.orglinkfedilinkarrow-up8·23 days agoIf at first you don’t succeed, hide the evidence and deny everything
minus-squareCatoblepas@lemmy.blahaj.zonelinkfedilinkarrow-up8·23 days agoMods, I’m being personally targeted!
minus-squareTotallynotJessica@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up3arrow-down2·23 days agoGood! Surrender to being broken and beautiful ❤
Counterpoint: I’ll simply give up if I can’t do it perfect right away. That’ll surely fill the gaping hole in my soul.
“you have to be ok with being really bad before you can become really good.”
“…or I can just never try!”
I’m starting to think 40 years of this mindset did some permanent damage to me and my future lol
If at first you don’t succeed, hide the evidence and deny everything
Mods, I’m being personally targeted!
It never will
Ah, fuck, then I give up.
Good! Surrender to being broken and beautiful ❤