The Picard Maneuver@startrek.website to People Twitter@sh.itjust.works · 2 years agoWould this work or just make people upset?startrek.websiteimagemessage-square81fedilinkarrow-up1759arrow-down118
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minus-squarexantoxis@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up60arrow-down1·2 years agoInsecure people would game it. Every time you make plans with someone, hit the button. Then get mad if they hit theirs too.
minus-squarecactus@lemmynsfw.comlinkfedilinkarrow-up22arrow-down1·2 years agoThen don’t make plans with them
minus-square🇰 🌀 🇱 🇦 🇳 🇦 🇰 🇮 🏆@yiffit.netlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up4arrow-down1·2 years agoYou say that as if I can actually say no to people.
minus-squareCryptidBestiary@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up4·2 years agoNot trying to sound facetious but one of the best things I’ve learned for myself was saying no to people when I needed to.
minus-squareSokathHisEyesOpen@lemmy.mllinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up14·2 years agoThat’s not insecurity, that’s straight-up dysfunctional.
Insecure people would game it. Every time you make plans with someone, hit the button. Then get mad if they hit theirs too.
Then don’t make plans with them
You say that as if I can actually say no to people.
Not trying to sound facetious but one of the best things I’ve learned for myself was saying no to people when I needed to.
Most especially work.
That’s not insecurity, that’s straight-up dysfunctional.