That’s awesome! Haha, yeah; I know what you mean. Still, super glad that worked out.
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tomenzgg@midwest.socialto
No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•Why are people using the "þ" character?English
2·5 days agoIf we strip all context from the original circumstance, I imagine we could.
But that’s not what happened, is it? You elected to editorialize that the user is doing it to be fake-different and to gain attention, despite them never going out of their way to do so, never once that I’ve seen actually say it has anything to do with poisoning AI (not that it matters, either way), and never responding when people disparage them to their “face”; literally, just typing the way they want to type and not responding to the behavior of others, the literal opposite of seeking attention.
Which any autistic person could tell you is highly relatable: they’re just off doing their own thing and it just infuriates the allistic folk who now have to make fun of them and say shit about them because, “Can’t they tell how annoying they’re being? Can’t they read social circumstances? I mean, I’m all for tolerance but they should really understand the way their behavior inconveniences me and makes me uncomfortable and now I’ve got make it their problem.”
It annoys you; fine. Different strokes; but you didn’t just say it annoys you: you assigned motive and character to this person because you’re so annoyed and any neurodivergent person would recognize that behavior from when it happened to them.
That’s clearly what AstralPath was referring to and you, then, lined up to the plate to participate further.
That’s what I was pointing out; it’s not a generalized argument: it’s a capturing of an explicitly neurodivergent experience and taking it out of that context is, of course, going to make it fall apart.
tomenzgg@midwest.socialto
News@lemmy.world•Why Did My Favorite Candy Bar Drop ‘Milk Chocolate’ From the Label? As climate change has helped push cocoa prices higher, companies are changing candy recipes in subtle ways.English
7·6 days agoI too trashed the malt balls.
Both verbally and literally.
tomenzgg@midwest.socialto
Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•What's your pet name for your SO, and vice versa?English
3·7 days agoI tend to call them “love” and “my heart” (or just “heart”, for short), a lot; much closer to an actual pet name but I’ll often refer to them as “dove”, “baby pie”, or “love muffin”, as well.
tomenzgg@midwest.socialto
World News@lemmy.world•Why Americans trying to hide as Canadians overseas doesn’t workEnglish
3·7 days agoOnly flaw there: elephants don’t have scrotums.
How you doing, r4venw? Any luck, yet?
tomenzgg@midwest.socialto
RetroGaming@lemmy.world•Who was your first childhood videogame crush?English
311·8 days ago
I was convinced, until the end of the game, there had to be some way to bring her back.
Unc’s a term that’s been in use since at least the 90s (but maybe older; I’m not a historian nor was alive then); it can sometimes be used disparagingly though, generally, it’s usually a sort of familiar way to refer to someone that’s older. Kind of similar in the way “cuz” doesn’t literally refer to someone who’s your cousin but someone you’re familiar with, who’s like family in the same way a cousin might be (you didn’t grow up with them, didn’t see them all the time, but you’re familiar with them).
So it’s not hard to see how this new definition came about but it is, still, sort of just plucking the word and modifying it to a very different context (the disparaging form was definitely not the predominant form and there was a degree of fondness or respect for your elders in the term which this new usage completely eradicates through patronizing that I can’t help but notice is more community-destructing than community-building). While this is a phenomenon that is far from new, it’s felt particularly manufactured in the last decade and a half or so (probably due to the ease with which things can become viral in our current Hellscape-form of Internet); a lot of the “slang” that’s hit mainstream awareness has felt almost more like buzzwords than actual slang or even natural language in the way it’s been used. That’s not directly relevant to your question but just something I’ve been thinking about.
Also, thanks for asking, rather than downvoting; it’s (obviously) not everyone but there’s a non-negligible segment of Lemmy that just seems to have an emotional tantrum every time race comes up.
Notably, – yet again – it’s also cribbing/misusing black slang/terminology; disappointing…
That’s…fucking crazy but really cool. That’s such a great story to go along with the tattoo.
Only incidental to your overall comment but that’s a great tattoo.
tomenzgg@midwest.socialto
linuxmemes@lemmy.world•Sometimes people like to complain about windows and iOSEnglish
1·10 days agoThis is the thing that had Balmer so disgusted with us in the 2000s…~
tomenzgg@midwest.socialto
Lemmy Shitpost@lemmy.world•Is it really worth the BS for a couple more years?English
3·11 days agoHow’d grampa die?
BASEd.
tomenzgg@midwest.socialto
No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•Why are people using the "þ" character?English
52·11 days agoNo but it is very neurodivergent to singularly pursue a special interest without any regard for social awareness.
And very neurotypical to label that person as annoying or just doing it for attention.
Cutting up pickles with boxed Mac. and Cheese was one of my favorite go-tos, in grad. school. If not pickles then I used to put canned tuna in; also quite good.
tomenzgg@midwest.socialto
World News@lemmy.world•Sharks from species once thought harmless kill and eat snorkeler in feeding frenzyEnglish
5·13 days agoSomewhere, my mother’s paranoia is shouting in vindication.
This; as much as I have no moral qualms about the practice, there’s massive risk that’s not always obvious to see.
tomenzgg@midwest.socialto
News@lemmy.world•Supreme Court will consider whether people who regularly smoke pot can legally own gunsEnglish
3·15 days agoI’m inclined to entirely agree though the abject hypocrisy (I know, par for the course of conservatives) will be through the roof if the individuals who staked their entire personality on “we can’t restrain gun ownership in any remote way because the plain-text of the constitution” find pot usage to be the only acceptable background check.
tomenzgg@midwest.socialto
News@lemmy.world•Still No Kings: Millions to Protest Trump On SaturdayEnglish
5·22 days agoan-ti-fa » an-tea-fa
Because of the chucking of tea into the harbor.
They say “for candidates I didn’t think deserved to be the nominee, let alone president” so I suspect they voted for the Democrat, in each election, rather than a third-party (considering their distaste for Democrats).