See, everyone thinks and feels differently about sex, it may matter a lot to one person but never cross the mind of another, one person may really want it, another may not, one may really enjoy it, and another may genuinely not. I’m glad you like it and it brings you joy, but I really don’t want it. Being a virgin is apparently like being an introvert, everyone keeps pushing you to “get out of your shell” instead of respecting the way you are.
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World News@lemmy.world•The decline of rights under UK’s Labour: 2024-2026English
8·2 months agoI said it before on reddit and I’ll say it again, Starmer is a fascist in disguise, but the UK has been going down the road of extreme surveillance for decades now. 1984 and V for Vendetta being both based on the UK and its politics wasn’t a coincidence.
The Book Elf@literature.cafeto
Technology@lemmy.world•Amazon: Older Kindles can no longer download e-booksEnglish
16·2 months agoThey can still be jailbroken and Calibre still exists
I’m 32 and a virgin by choice, and I don’t get why being a virgin is seen like such a bad or difficult thing.
The Book Elf@literature.cafeto
Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•What were your parent's rules on video games?
2·10 months agoWe did too, but it was because my parents refused to pay full price for a game, so they bought pirate physical copies for dirt cheap and they worked great. Then of course I learned to torrent. Nowadays I only buy games when they’re from indie devs or from small companies.
The Book Elf@literature.cafeto
Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•What were your parent's rules on video games?
9·10 months agoMy parents let me play whatever I wanted, even Mortal Kombat and Resident Evil, but first they taught me the difference between fiction and reality and said I could play for a limited amount of hours per day, and only after doing my homework or after studying. Except on weekends, on weekends they let me play for longer, but also made sure I was playing offline too and going outside. It was pretty good.
The funny thing to me is that my dad would sometimes say it frustrated him that I liked video games because he thought they were “for boys” and yet he was the one who bought my (jailbroken) console and (pirated physical copies of) games until I turned 18 lol
If not friend, why friend-shaped?
Lemmy is starting to feel like reddit after all
It’s not all the parents fault, leaving kids unattended under all contexts has been sort of criminalised. Letting your kids play unsupervised outside or even letting them walk to school by themselves could get CPS called on you. I had a friend who had to stop letting her 10 year old walk to the bus stop to take the bus to school, because a “concerned neighbour” called CPS, it was a ten minute walk.
The Book Elf@literature.cafeto
Privacy@lemmy.ml•Six arrested at protest of Palantir, tech company building deportation software for Trump admin
1·10 months agoIt makes no sense because Tolkien wouldn’t have agreed with most of them and would’ve despised how they use his legacy. I don’t think these people understood the message the books were trying to send.
The Book Elf@literature.cafeto
Privacy@lemmy.ml•Six arrested at protest of Palantir, tech company building deportation software for Trump admin
24·11 months agoI really wish they didn’t give this thing a LotR name (Palantir), Tolkien would’ve hated it.
The Book Elf@literature.cafeto
Mildly Infuriating@lemmy.world•The White House is paving over the Rose Garden with concreteEnglish
1·11 months agoHe’s speedrunning his cartoonish villain arc
The Book Elf@literature.cafeto
Mildly Infuriating@lemmy.world•Guess I'm banned by Know Your Meme now. [yippee.wav]English
1·11 months agoNot only that, but they use device bans as well, so even if you switch to an unbanned IP they can still detect if you’re on the same device you were first banned on, and ban you again for ban evasion.
This one time I got banned from world news for disagreeing with one of the more conservative posts there, and I wasn’t even impolite about it. Months later I accidentally commented on world news again using an alt account, as I had forgotten about the ban. So then I got permanently banned from reddit itself, and every time I tried to make a new account it got banned for ban evasion. I was only able to make a new account and keep it for more than 24 hours when some time later I changed my IP and bought a new phone.



Same, and I was going to buy more storage but those are getting so expensive too.