This applies to all these diets, not just calorie counting. “Don’t eat carbs”, “don’t eat fats”, “don’t eat processed foods” are all different ways of saying “You just have to raise your elevation.”
They all imply there’s just one singular thing you have to do, but they’re not sustainable.
Your conclusion is great, it’s all about designing a sustainable diet for yourself that works.
I think you have something else… i also have astigmatism, but circles don’t look like eggs, with or without glasses.