Mostly lurking. United States southerner, gay, working retail. An amazing combination

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Cake day: February 23rd, 2024

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  • It’s funny, I was ALWAYS taught to say please growing up, but as an adult I only hear it in more formal settings, or from older folks. I think people realized that tone and body language also show that you’re trying to be pleasant and not bossy, and dropped the habit of saying it.

    I’m sure it’s regional, though, and I’m only speaking for one small chunk of the US.








  • Alice@beehaw.orgto196@lemmy.blahaj.zoneAntinatalism Rule
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    6 days ago

    You quoted the part where they said most people, but you’re replying as if they said most parents.

    Anyway, you’d hope people who don’t know all that would learn better after the kid comes out, but I know some people don’t. I can name two off the top of my head.



  • Alice@beehaw.orgtoChat@beehaw.orgHow's your week going, Beehaw?
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    7 days ago

    Moving delayed again due to weather. Also honestly I’m not sure why family keeps offering to help me move. Their vehicle has cargo space, sure, but it’s one vehicle between five adults, and very few of them know how to drive so that really limits when it’s actually available for me to borrow.

    They’re just gonna have to evict me and throw all my shit down the stairs and break it like they do with my neighbors.

    Had to cancel an art collab I’ll never have another chance to do, because I live in one apartment and my computer is in the other.

    Skin infection isn’t going away but my insurance rejects every test I get, so I’m done trying.

    Had either COVID or the flu, but it was the week of a major US holiday and they were disciplining people for calling out, so I worked all week. Got publicly shamed for my terrible metrics while I was too phlegmy to speak.

    Basically, next week HAS to be good.

    ETA at least I’m back at the gym, although I feel terrible after being out for two weeks. I was so sick I was just working and sleeping for a while.