• dwindling7373@feddit.it
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        2 days ago

        No one dreams about the guy they have to apologize for after you met them

        Have you ever been on planet earth? That’s sadly false in many instances.

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      2 days ago

      “Don’t be ugly” is definitely helpful physically, but vital intelectually and emotionally.

          • RowRowRowYourBot@sh.itjust.works
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            3 hours ago

            Which isn’t an IRL concern for most men. I used to be friends with a woman in a sugar baby relationship. She looks like a prettier version of Samantha Browning and I look like Waldo/Wally from Where’s Waldo if Waldo had bad skin and missing a few teeth.

            Every once in a while someone would ask why I was hanging out with her and my reply would be something along the lines if she’s nice, interesting, and Im poor and I own a mirror. I had nothing to lose by hanging out with someone who was interested in beibg friends with me clearly because of whobI was rather than anything material I had to offer.

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      i’m a 4 on a good day. Only dated once, she broke up with me, so I kinda accepted that I’m just not meant to have a partner.

      1 year later I met a nice lady at a birthday party I wasn’t exactly invited to, we talked, yaddayadda, 12 years later we are still together.