• Soulg@sh.itjust.works
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    2 months ago

    One of the most common things in threads about missed signals is people with social skills assuming that everybody is equally capable in social situations

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      2 months ago

      Or that their own experiences socially, translate to others.

      Looks DO matter, more so than most will admit. It’s like being rich, they’ll tell you they got rich by being smart or hard working, but will be willfully ignorant of the inheritance or luck they got.